For me, it was easy to know my feelings. It was a bit of a shocker though. To just suddenly realize That I was gay. For starters, everyone is different. So you may have known your whole life, or you could have just realized you may not be straight yesterday. Its a bit different, depending on the person. You may be questioning, or wondering however. But there isn't any way that I can tell you who and what you are. It is for you to figure out. But maybe with advice, I could make it a little easier. Okay so, you can tell you gay by thinking it through, running it through your head, collecting that facts. If you may have fantasies about same sex partners, or if you find them oddly attractive. But in everybody's lives there is a time where we try to find ourselfs, a lot of people question about 96 percent actually do question at least once. here what you need to do.
1. wait, if you are questioning then it could go away, it may just be a phase ( this may be hard, but talk to somebody you trust )
2. If it doesn't go away, and you still have fantasies or dwell on the opposite sex, then you may be lesbian gay or bisexual. But keep waiting because it could just be a really long phase.
3. experiment. Maybe if you try these feelings out you could get a better basis on what you are.
4. If your uncomfortable with that, then maybe you should watch some porn ( it sounds awkward, but it will give you a good basis on your orientation )
5. if you don't feel comfortable doing ether, than maybe you should talk to other gay people. it always helps, to talk to somebody that went through the same thing as you did.
6. Lastly, don't rush your feelings, you'll understand someday, and if not today then in the future for sure.
Hope I helped. peace out.
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